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Ride the Wave
Managing intense emotions with DBT
Intense emotions are not a defect — they are waves: they rise, they peak, and every one of them ends. This program teaches the DBT emotion-regulation skills for riding them: name the wave, check the facts, surf the urge, act opposite, lower your baseline. Sixty seconds of diary card a night, and your own data does the convincing.
Waves have a shape, too
- Emotions that arrive fast, at full volume, and are slow to leave.
- Words said in the heat of it that cost you afterward.
- Evenings — or days — lost to a single feeling.
- A lifetime of being told you were overreacting.
- The urge and the action feeling like the same thing.
Your diary card drives the program
Not a course you watch — a loop you run. Ride the Wave reads which skills you actually used and which ones actually helped, and prescribes next week's focus skill from your own ratings.
Measure
A sixty-second diary card each evening, while the day is still honest — plus an optional wave log whenever a big one passes.
daily · 60 secLearn
Short sessions with Maya teach the method — what an emotion is, checking the facts, opposite action, lowering the baseline.
10–15 min · most daysAdjust
The weekly review ranks your skills by how much they actually helped, and prescribes the one to lean on next.
weekly review↻ the loop runs weekly — six times
Every skill you try gets rated for whether it helped. The weekly review finds the quadrant that matters — skills you rated highly but reached for least — and prescribes that one as next week's focus. Not the skill we like best; the one your own card says is working and going to waste.
Six weeks, one method
Seventeen sessions and five weekly reviews. The first week is free — including your baseline wave report.
Week 1Understand the WaveThe machinery, frame by frame3 sessies
Week 2Name It to Ride ItThe map, the facts, the ride4 sessies
Week 3Don't Make It WorseThe gap, the brakes, the second wave4 sessies
Week 4Opposite ActionThe heavy lifter4 sessies
Week 5Lower the BaselineFewer storms start on a lower sea4 sessies
Week 6Keep the SkillYour data, your drill, your page3 sessies
Maya
DBT: emotion regulation core · begeleidt 4 programma's
The steady emotion-regulation coach — warm, unhurried, and precise about what a feeling is actually doing before asking you to change anything. Maya treats big emotions as information, not malfunctions.
“Hi, I'm Maya. Over the next six weeks we're not going to make you feel less — we're going to make the waves rideable, and let your own card prove it.”
Linehan's module, faithfully built
Ride the Wave implements the DBT emotion-regulation module — Linehan's biosocial model, the model of emotions, check the facts, mindfulness of current emotion, opposite action, ABC PLEASE, and cope ahead — with TIPP from distress tolerance for peak arousal. Full DBT with a clinician is the treatment with the evidence behind it; this is the skills training, self-guided.
- Biosocial model and the model of emotionsLinehan
- Check the facts and opposite action
- ABC PLEASE and cope ahead
- TIPP for peak arousaldistress tolerance
Not crisis care, and honest about it
Self-harm urges pin a crisis-resources card for the whole program; urges with intent, or recent acts, get direct referral copy — full DBT with a clinician is the treatment with the evidence, and this program says so rather than competing with it. Diagnosed or suspected bipolar disorder routes to an education-only track pending clinician confirmation.
The TIPP brakes carry contraindication tags and flagged brakes are hidden — cold water for heart conditions, low blood pressure, or beta-blockers; intense exercise for anyone with an eating-disorder history. This program is not medical advice.
Ride the Wave, naast de concurrentie
| Ride the WaveResiliens | dialecticalbehaviortherapy.comdialecticalbehaviortherapy.com | DBT-Minddbt-mind.com | Grouport DBT Self-Guided Programgrouporttherapy.com | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Prijs | $149 eenmalig (concept) — het programma is van jou | Free | $8.99–$9.49/month, or $49.99–$54.99/year | $500 one-time, lifetime access |
| Structuur | 6 weken · 17 sessies + wekelijkse evaluaties | 40+ lessons across the four modules, each roughly 5 minutes of learning plus a 10-minute exercise; the email track runs 26 weeks | Skills library plus a four-stage learning path and user-creatable custom skills — not time-boxed, and not a program with an end | 48 video sessions of about 22 minutes each — over 17 hours — with 48 homework assignments and reading manuals across six modules. At the suggested one-per-week pace, that is roughly a year |
| Personalisatie | Diary card → skill leaderboard → focus skill | None — the same sequence for everyone, with no data collected | Offers 'personalized skill recommendations', though the basis for them is not published | None |
| Menselijke ondersteuning | Zelfstandig begeleid · ingebouwde doorverwijzingsdrempels naar clinici | None | 24/7 AI crisis chat, plus an optional therapist connection where the user controls data sharing | Taught by a licensed instructor, with a peer community forum, but no direct instructor feedback |
| Toegang | Zelfbediening, begin vandaag | Free and open on the web | Direct-to-consumer subscription | Direct-to-consumer, web only |
| Breedte | 24+ programma's in catalogus · bundel 2-3 verwante programma's en bespaar | The generic full DBT curriculum, not aimed at any specific problem | Generic DBT skills across all four modules, in English, German and Spanish | The generic full DBT curriculum; no diary card and no problem-specific track |
| Platforms | Web · iOS · Android | Web | iOS · Android | Web |
Bronnen: prijzen en programmapagina's van concurrenten — elke productiewaarde bevat een bron-URL en toegangsdatum, en niet-gepubliceerde feiten worden aangeduid als "niet gepubliceerd", nooit geraden.
Waarom we het anders hebben gebouwd
- Built for one problem, not all of DBT. Ride the Wave teaches the emotion-regulation module against the specific problem of waves that arrive big and stay — rather than marching you through all four modules to reach the part you came for.
- The card tells you what's next. Everyone hands you a diary card. This one is read weekly to find the skills you rated highly and reach for least, and prescribes that as next week's focus — the mechanic no competitor in this category offers.
- Six weeks, and finishable. The published trials of DBT apps report heavy dropout and low dose-completion. A six-week program with an end is a deliberate answer to that, not a shortcut.
Start gratis. Ga verder als het werkt.
Eerste week
- Onboarding + two full sessions
- Nightly diary card + wave log
- Your baseline wave report
Volledig programma
- All six weeks of Ride the Wave, yours to keep
- Every session, review, and exercise
- Web + Untangle app access
Werk je aan meer dan één ding? Verwante programma's worden gebundeld — twee of drie tegen korting. Bundels worden bij de lancering aangekondigd.
Voordat je begint
Is this the same as doing DBT with a therapist?
No, and we won't pretend otherwise. Full DBT — individual therapy, skills group, phone coaching — is the treatment with the evidence behind it. This is the skills-training piece, self-guided, for people who want to start now or reinforce what they're already learning.
Do I need a BPD diagnosis to use this?
No. Ride the Wave is built for emotions that arrive big and cost you things — not for a chart code. DBT skills were developed in that context and have since been shown useful far beyond it.
What if I have self-harm urges?
Crisis resources stay pinned for the whole program, and urges with intent or recent acts get direct referral copy pointing you to full DBT with a clinician. This program is not crisis care and doesn't pretend to be.
How much time does it take?
Sixty seconds for the diary card each evening, and ten to fifteen minutes most days for the session. A wave log takes another minute, whenever a big one passes — late entries are fine.
Be first to ride the wave
Ride the Wave is launching soon on the web and in the Untangle app. Join the early-access list and we'll let you know the moment it opens.
Eén e-mail zodra je programma opent. Geen druppelcampagne.