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Second Thought
Taming impulsivity with DBT
Impulsivity is a short circuit: the urge fires and the action follows before anything else gets a vote — the message sent, the cart bought, the job quit. The trainable variable is the gap. This program builds it: the wedge, the ten-minute rule, urge surfing, chain analysis with the lights on, friction design, values speed bumps — and a log that turns every faded urge into recorded proof that the urge was weather, not a command.
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- 이런 분들께 적합해요
- For anyone whose fastest decisions are their most expensive ones: the unsendable message sent, the order placed at midnight, the exit speech delivered — the ten-second solutions that bill for weeks.
- 프로그램 소개
- A structured 6-week DBT program for impulsivity, built from the protocol clinicians use.
- 형식
- 10–15 min/day — coach videos, an urge log, and a weekly review that adapts your plan.
- 가격
- First week free — including your baseline urge report. Then $99, one-time — not a subscription.
The short circuit has a shape, too
- The message you couldn't unsend, written in under a minute.
- The order placed at midnight, regretted by morning.
- The exit speech delivered before the thought finished forming.
- Ten seconds of relief that bills you for weeks.
- Knowing the pause would help, and never quite having one.
Your urge log sets the pause
Not a course you watch — a loop you run. Second Thought logs urges whether or not you acted, then grows or shortens the prescribed pause from the evidence of whether the gap actually held.
Measure
A sixty-second urge log after any urge — acted on or not — plus a next-day regret check on the ones you acted on.
as it happens · 60 secLearn
Short sessions with Nathan teach the method — the short circuit, the wedge, the ten-minute rule, chain analysis, friction design.
10–15 min · most daysAdjust
The weekly review sets two things: how long the pause runs, and which category the kit points at this week.
weekly review↻ the loop runs weekly — six times
The pause is a rung, not a rule. It grows from two minutes to five to ten as your log shows the gap holding, and steps back down when it doesn't — because a pause you can't keep isn't a skill, it's a stick to beat yourself with. Every faded urge gets recorded as proof the urge was weather, not a command.
Six weeks, one method
Sixteen sessions and five weekly reviews. The first week is free — including your baseline urge report.
Week 1The Short CircuitThe curve, the act-point, and the bill3회 세션
Week 2The PauseThe wedge, the ring, the wave4회 세션
Week 3The ChainLights on, never blame4회 세션
Week 4The EnvironmentWork on the room, not just on you4회 세션
Week 5Harder ChainsAccelerants, lapses, and the fastest category4회 세션
Week 6The Gap, for LifeYour data, your standing orders2회 세션
Nathan
DBT: crisis & impulse · 4개 프로그램을 이끌고 있습니다
The crisis-and-impulse specialist — calm, direct, built for the moment right before you do something you'll regret. Nathan's whole job is the sixty seconds between urge and action.
“Hi, I'm Nathan. Over the next six weeks we're not going to make the urges stop arriving — we're going to build a gap between the urge and the act, and prove to you it holds.”
DBT impulse control, faithfully built
Second Thought implements the DBT skills for impulse control — STOP, delay and urge surfing, behavioral chain analysis and solution analysis — alongside stimulus control and environment design, values-based cues, and relapse management. The chain work is run with the lights on and without blame: an autopsy of the sequence, not a verdict on the person.
- STOP, delay, and urge surfingLinehan
- Behavioral chain and solution analysis
- Stimulus control and environment design
- Values-based cues
Some categories belong elsewhere
Substance-dependence signals and gambling at severity are excluded from this program with routing to Clear Path or specialist treatment — stopping some substances suddenly needs a doctor involved. Impulses that endanger other people route to Even Keel and Flashpoint. Self-harm impulses route to crisis resources and clinician DBT, with the program continuing for everyday categories and the crisis card pinned.
Excluded categories are structurally removed from the urge log rather than left blank, and render as 'handled elsewhere' — so the program never reads your referral as a gap in your data. This is not medical advice or a crisis service.
무료로 시작하세요. 효과가 있을 때만 계속하세요.
첫 주
- Onboarding + two full sessions
- Urge log + next-day regret check
- Your baseline urge report
전체 프로그램
- All six weeks of Second Thought, yours to keep
- Every session, review, and exercise
- Web + Untangle app access
여러 가지를 동시에 다루고 계신가요? 관련 프로그램은 묶어서 진행할 수 있습니다 — 두세 개를 할인된 가격으로. 번들 가격 정책은 곧 제공될 예정입니다.
시작하기 전에
What if my impulsivity involves drinking or gambling?
Those categories are screened out and routed — to Clear Path or specialist treatment — rather than treated here. That's a deliberate limit: stopping some substances suddenly needs a doctor, not an app.
Do I log an urge even if I didn't act on it?
Especially then. Every urge that faded without action is recorded evidence that the urge was weather rather than a command — and those entries are what grow your pause.
Is chain analysis just picking apart my mistakes?
No. It's run with the lights on and without blame — an autopsy of the sequence to find where a skill could have entered, not a verdict on you. That framing is explicit in the sessions.
How much time does it take?
Sixty seconds after an urge, and ten to fifteen minutes most days for the session. Logging hours late is fine — an entry made the next morning beats one never made.
비용은 얼마이고, 구독제인가요?
첫 주는 무료이며, 카드 등록이 필요하지 않습니다. 전체 프로그램은 $99로 일회성 결제이며, 구독이나 해지 절차가 없습니다. 프로그램을 완료하면 계속 소유하실 수 있습니다.
효과가 있는지 어떻게 알 수 있나요?
시작할 때 검증된 설문지를 작성하고, 매주 진행되는 리뷰마다 다시 작성하므로 진행 상황을 연속 기록이 아닌 숫자로 확인할 수 있습니다. 6번의 주간 리뷰를 거치며 프로그램이 본인의 데이터를 기반으로 계획을 조정하며, 숫자가 변하지 않는다면 그 사실도 확인하실 수 있습니다.
Get a second thought
Start the first week of Second Thought free — onboarding, two full sessions, your daily log, and your baseline report. Continue only if it's working.
첫 주는 카드 등록이 필요 없습니다. 전체 프로그램은 $99이며, 일회성 결제입니다 — 구독이 아닙니다.