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Second Thought
Taming impulsivity with DBT
Impulsivity is a short circuit: the urge fires and the action follows before anything else gets a vote — the message sent, the cart bought, the job quit. The trainable variable is the gap. This program builds it: the wedge, the ten-minute rule, urge surfing, chain analysis with the lights on, friction design, values speed bumps — and a log that turns every faded urge into recorded proof that the urge was weather, not a command.
Mit Coach NathanProgramm im Überblick
- Für wen es geeignet ist
- For anyone whose fastest decisions are their most expensive ones: the unsendable message sent, the order placed at midnight, the exit speech delivered — the ten-second solutions that bill for weeks.
- Was es ist
- A structured 6-week DBT program for impulsivity, built from the protocol clinicians use.
- Format
- 10–15 min/day — coach videos, an urge log, and a weekly review that adapts your plan.
- Preis
- First week free — including your baseline urge report. Then $99, one-time — not a subscription.
The short circuit has a shape, too
- The message you couldn't unsend, written in under a minute.
- The order placed at midnight, regretted by morning.
- The exit speech delivered before the thought finished forming.
- Ten seconds of relief that bills you for weeks.
- Knowing the pause would help, and never quite having one.
Your urge log sets the pause
Not a course you watch — a loop you run. Second Thought logs urges whether or not you acted, then grows or shortens the prescribed pause from the evidence of whether the gap actually held.
Measure
A sixty-second urge log after any urge — acted on or not — plus a next-day regret check on the ones you acted on.
as it happens · 60 secLearn
Short sessions with Nathan teach the method — the short circuit, the wedge, the ten-minute rule, chain analysis, friction design.
10–15 min · most daysAdjust
The weekly review sets two things: how long the pause runs, and which category the kit points at this week.
weekly review↻ the loop runs weekly — six times
The pause is a rung, not a rule. It grows from two minutes to five to ten as your log shows the gap holding, and steps back down when it doesn't — because a pause you can't keep isn't a skill, it's a stick to beat yourself with. Every faded urge gets recorded as proof the urge was weather, not a command.
Six weeks, one method
Sixteen sessions and five weekly reviews. The first week is free — including your baseline urge report.
Week 1The Short CircuitThe curve, the act-point, and the bill3 Sitzungen
Week 2The PauseThe wedge, the ring, the wave4 Sitzungen
Week 3The ChainLights on, never blame4 Sitzungen
Week 4The EnvironmentWork on the room, not just on you4 Sitzungen
Week 5Harder ChainsAccelerants, lapses, and the fastest category4 Sitzungen
Week 6The Gap, for LifeYour data, your standing orders2 Sitzungen
Nathan
DBT: crisis & impulse · begleitet 4 Programme
The crisis-and-impulse specialist — calm, direct, built for the moment right before you do something you'll regret. Nathan's whole job is the sixty seconds between urge and action.
“Hi, I'm Nathan. Over the next six weeks we're not going to make the urges stop arriving — we're going to build a gap between the urge and the act, and prove to you it holds.”
DBT impulse control, faithfully built
Second Thought implements the DBT skills for impulse control — STOP, delay and urge surfing, behavioral chain analysis and solution analysis — alongside stimulus control and environment design, values-based cues, and relapse management. The chain work is run with the lights on and without blame: an autopsy of the sequence, not a verdict on the person.
- STOP, delay, and urge surfingLinehan
- Behavioral chain and solution analysis
- Stimulus control and environment design
- Values-based cues
Some categories belong elsewhere
Substance-dependence signals and gambling at severity are excluded from this program with routing to Clear Path or specialist treatment — stopping some substances suddenly needs a doctor involved. Impulses that endanger other people route to Even Keel and Flashpoint. Self-harm impulses route to crisis resources and clinician DBT, with the program continuing for everyday categories and the crisis card pinned.
Excluded categories are structurally removed from the urge log rather than left blank, and render as 'handled elsewhere' — so the program never reads your referral as a gap in your data. This is not medical advice or a crisis service.
Kostenlos starten. Weitermachen, wenn es wirkt.
Erste Woche
- Onboarding + two full sessions
- Urge log + next-day regret check
- Your baseline urge report
Vollständiges Programm
- All six weeks of Second Thought, yours to keep
- Every session, review, and exercise
- Web + Untangle app access
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Bevor du startest
What if my impulsivity involves drinking or gambling?
Those categories are screened out and routed — to Clear Path or specialist treatment — rather than treated here. That's a deliberate limit: stopping some substances suddenly needs a doctor, not an app.
Do I log an urge even if I didn't act on it?
Especially then. Every urge that faded without action is recorded evidence that the urge was weather rather than a command — and those entries are what grow your pause.
Is chain analysis just picking apart my mistakes?
No. It's run with the lights on and without blame — an autopsy of the sequence to find where a skill could have entered, not a verdict on you. That framing is explicit in the sessions.
How much time does it take?
Sixty seconds after an urge, and ten to fifteen minutes most days for the session. Logging hours late is fine — an entry made the next morning beats one never made.
Wie viel kostet es, und ist es ein Abonnement?
Die erste Woche ist kostenlos, ohne dass eine Kreditkarte erforderlich ist. Das vollständige Programm kostet $99, einmalig zu zahlen – es gibt kein Abonnement und nichts zu kündigen. Wenn du es abgeschlossen hast, bleibt es dein Eigentum.
Wie weiß ich, ob es funktioniert?
Du füllst zu Beginn einen validierten Fragebogen aus und dann erneut bei jeder wöchentlichen Überprüfung, sodass der Fortschritt eine Zahl ist, die du beobachten kannst, statt nur eine Serie. Über 6 wöchentliche Überprüfungen passt das Programm deinen Plan anhand deiner eigenen Daten an – und wenn sich die Zahl nicht bewegt, wirst du auch das sehen.
Get a second thought
Start the first week of Second Thought free — onboarding, two full sessions, your daily log, and your baseline report. Continue only if it's working.
Keine Karte für die erste Woche nötig. Das vollständige Programm kostet $99, einmalig — kein Abo.