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As It Is
DBT radical acceptance: living with what you can't change
Pain arrives regardless of what you think about it. Suffering is the second layer — the one added by fighting what's already happened, or already decided, or already fixed. This program trains the stance that removes that second layer: catching the fight, turning the mind toward what's true, on purpose, again and again. And it draws a hard line, held firmly: acceptance is never a reason to stay in danger.
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- 适合人群
- For anyone still fighting a fact that finished changing — a loss, a limit, a choice someone else already made, a door that closed. Not for problems you haven't tried to fix yet, and never for a situation that's putting you in danger.
- 项目介绍
- A structured 6-week DBT program for radical acceptance, built from the protocol clinicians use.
- 形式
- 10–15 min/day — coach videos, a practice log, and a weekly review that adapts your plan.
- 价格
- First week free — including your baseline suffering chart. Then $99, one-time — not a subscription.
The second layer has a shape, too
- Still arguing with a fact that finished changing.
- A loss, a limit, or a door that closed — replayed as though replaying could reopen it.
- A choice someone else already made, relitigated nightly.
- The sense that accepting it would mean it was okay.
- Exhaustion that comes from the fight rather than from the thing itself.
Two lines, and only one of them moves
Not a course you watch — a loop you run. As It Is logs the suffering you're adding before and after a turn, charts it against a pain line that stays flat, and points next week at the domain where you're fighting hardest.
Measure
About sixty seconds when something's stuck: what it is, whether you caught the fight, the suffering before, the turn, and after.
as it happens · 60 secLearn
Short sessions with Mika teach the method — the formula, willfulness and willingness, turning the mind, and the line.
10–15 min · most daysAdjust
The weekly review reads your catch-to-turn rate and suffering delta, and sets the domain to work next.
weekly review↻ the loop runs weekly — six times
The program charts two lines. Pain is the first, and it stays honestly flat — nothing here promises less of it. Suffering is the second, the part added by fighting what's already true, and that's the line that moves. Your log tracks how often you catch the fight and turn, across four domains: the past, other people's choices, limitation, and an uncertain future.
Six weeks, one method
Fifteen sessions and five weekly reviews. The first week is free — including your baseline suffering chart.
Week 1Pain and SufferingThe formula that runs underneath everything3 节课程
Week 2Willfulness and WillingnessCatching the fight, and what your body can do about it4 节课程
Week 3What Gets AcceptedThe past, other people's choices, limitation4 节课程
Week 4The Line, Held FirmlyFixable gets solved. Unsafe gets an exit.4 节课程
Week 5The Daily PracticeSmall on purpose, then the hardest thing4 节课程
Week 6Living As It IsYour data, and where it points next1 节课程
Mika
DBT: mindfulness & acceptance · 指导 4 个项目
The mindfulness and acceptance guide — quiet, unrushed, comfortable sitting with things that can't be fixed. Mika teaches the difference between what you can change and what you can only carry.
“Hi, I'm Mika. Over the next six weeks we're not going to make anything hurt less — we're going to take away the second layer, the one you've been adding by fighting what's already true.”
Radical acceptance, faithfully built
As It Is implements Linehan's radical acceptance — pain times non-acceptance equals suffering, willfulness versus willingness, and turning the mind — together with the scope boundary that matters most: the actionable-versus-acceptable line, which decides when acceptance is the wrong tool entirely.
- Pain × non-acceptance = sufferingLinehan
- Willfulness versus willingness
- Turning the mind
- The actionable-vs-acceptable scope boundary
Acceptance is never a reason to stay in danger
The actionable-versus-acceptable line is a required structural acknowledgment at onboarding, not a line of prose you can skim. Acceptance is never a reason to stay in an unsafe situation, in ongoing abuse, or with a problem that actually has a next step — those get a safety plan, an exit, or problem-solving instead. Only what is already true gets accepted.
A recent, specific loss routes to a Still Here note, with this program continuing alongside it rather than instead of it. Active trauma-processing needs route to Steady Ground. Nothing gates; every flag produces an honest note. This is not medical advice or therapy.
As It Is，与同类产品对比
| As It IsResiliens | Radical Acceptance (Tara Brach)courses.tarabrach.com | The Happiness Trap Online Programthehappinesstrap.com | ACT Coach (US Dept of Veterans Affairs)apps.apple.com | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 价格 | 一次性$99(原价$149)——该项目归你所有 | $74.99 one-time, lifetime access | $295 list, $95 on sale | Free |
| 结构 | 6 周 · 15 节课程 + 每周回顾 | 44 video lessons of two to eight minutes each — around 4.5 hours across 50 lessons including intros — with guided meditations, Q&A sessions and practice exercises | Eight weeks, self-paced, one to two hours a week in 10–15 minute modules — video, audio exercises, articles and worksheets, running from 'happiness and suffering' to 'a higher sense of self' | A toolbox with logs rather than a curriculum — exercises, tools, information and tracking logs to practise between sessions |
| 个性化 | Practice log → suffering delta → this week's domain | None | None documented | None described |
| 人工支持 | 自主引导 · 内置临床医生转介机制 | None; technical support only | Yes, and it's a genuine differentiator — an interactive forum where Russ Harris himself responds. This is not a purely self-guided product | None in the app, and explicitly scoped: built for people who are already in ACT in consultation with a therapist, not as standalone treatment |
| 获取方式 | 自助服务，今天就可以开始 | Direct-to-consumer, web, lifetime | Direct-to-consumer, web, with a six-month access window | Free and public |
| 覆盖广度 | 70+ 个项目目录 · 捆绑2-3个相关项目可省钱 | Dedicated to radical acceptance — but Brach's, not Linehan's. Self-compassion and the 'trance of unworthiness' rather than DBT distress tolerance: no willfulness and willingness, no turning the mind, no pain-times-non-acceptance equation | The whole ACT hexaflex; acceptance is one of six processes rather than the subject | ACT generally rather than acceptance specifically |
| 平台 | Web · iOS · Android | Web | Web | iOS · Android |
来源：竞争对手的定价和项目页面 — 每个生产环境数值都附有来源网址和访问日期，未公开的信息都标注为“未公开”，绝不猜测。
我们为何以不同方式打造它
- Two lines, and only one is supposed to move. Your suffering rating before and after each turn, charted against a pain line that stays honestly flat. Therapists have done this on paper for decades with pre- and post-intensity ratings; nobody has built it into a program you can run yourself.
- Linehan's radical acceptance, not the other one. Willfulness and willingness, turning the mind, and pain times non-acceptance — the DBT distress-tolerance skill. Worth knowing, because the best-known course under this name teaches a different tradition entirely.
- It tells you when acceptance is the wrong tool. The actionable-versus-acceptable line is acknowledged at onboarding before anything opens: fixable gets problem-solving, unsafe gets an exit. No competitor found draws that boundary explicitly.
免费开始。有效果再继续。
首周
- Onboarding + two full sessions
- Acceptance practice log
- Your baseline suffering chart
完整项目
- All six weeks of As It Is, yours to keep
- Every session, review, and exercise
- Web + Untangle app access
同时在处理不止一件事?相关项目可以打包在一起——两个或三个可享折扣。套餐定价即将推出。
在开始As It Is之前先深入了解
- Radical Acceptance in DBTRadical Acceptance is a skill taught in DBT that allows people to4 min read 分钟阅读
- How To Practice Radical Acceptance?>4 min read 分钟阅读
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy - A Short-term Treatment for Depression.Depression is a common and serious medical illness that negatively7 min read 分钟阅读
开始之前
Doesn't accepting something mean saying it was okay?
No, and week one is built on the distinction. Acceptance is acknowledging what is already true — it makes no claim about whether it was fair, deserved, or okay. There's a whole session on what acceptance isn't.
What if my situation is actually fixable?
Then acceptance is the wrong tool, and the program says so from the first session. Fixable gets problem-solving. Unsafe gets an exit. Only what's already finished changing gets accepted — you acknowledge that line at onboarding before anything opens.
Will this make the pain smaller?
No, and we won't pretend otherwise. Your pain line stays honestly flat on the chart. What moves is the suffering line — the war you've been adding on top of it.
How much time does it take?
About sixty seconds whenever something's stuck, and ten to fifteen minutes most days for the session. The log is event-triggered — no daily duty.
费用是多少?是订阅制吗?
第一周免费,无需信用卡。完整项目费用为$99,一次性付费——没有订阅,也无需取消。完成后即永久归你所有。
我怎么知道它是否有效?
你会在开始时完成一份经过验证的问卷,之后每次每周复盘时再次填写,因此进展是一个可以观察的数字,而不是一个连续打卡记录。在6次每周复盘中,项目会根据你自己的数据调整你的计划——如果这个数字没有变化,你也会看到。
Take it as it is
Start the first week of As It Is free — onboarding, two full sessions, your daily log, and your baseline report. Continue only if it's working.
第一周无需绑卡。完整项目为一次性付费$99——不是订阅。